feli departure

Okay Feli . But from where I sit . Knowing my values . Much of this could have been handled better . I am sorry it came to this . I still do not think that what is being said is anything that can be taken negatively personally .

This is what I found in the forum .

By felimac in Valley of the Sun Casual Club

I'll just keep this short and sweet. There are many reasons why I have stayed out of the forum lately and why I have not been enthused about playing. I'm not going to explain all of it here..those who I stay in contact with know why. In saying that I just wanted to let you all know, it is time for me to move on. I'm not bailing when things are tough...things have been tough for months. I always tried to support Paul as well as defending others but that didn't go too well and in the end made me feel very uncomfortable to post anything.

I wish you all the best.

* one big last hug* Feli

And do you think this did not surprise me ? Do you think I would have not done anything and everything to not have you feel that way ? I wish I could have known .

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. Deena wrote:

And regarding Feli (who has now departed), why you would take a snipe at pdb for perhaps a few responses that ran contraire to your expectations is beyond me - sure you were helping him, but to question whether you were because the guy is in a lot of turmoil and might give you responses that you didn't expect...so he was snappy to the hand that was caring for him (I saw the posts and I thought pdb was a bit harsh on your words of encouragement), BUT - you don't expect consistency from someone who is deeply troubled at the moment, and if you have left because you were feeling a bit scorned then you weren't genuinely caring because you put your feelings first.



I dunno - is it because of me anyone?? was it me who made her feel 'uncomfortable' about posting 'lately', well if it's because i'm a tranny all I have to say to all good Christians is:

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I certainly didn't know of anytime you had done that .

I just want to make things right with the players that have shown me the most care and respect .

You top that list . That has always been clear to me .